Showing posts with label wedding trends. Show all posts
Showing posts with label wedding trends. Show all posts

Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Green Wedding Tips

Last week I posted my five top money-saving tips for planning an affordable wedding. This week I am talking about my top three tips for reducing the carbon footprint of your wedding.



1. Go Paperless:
Use virtual invitations: it is cheaper, faster and more convenient. What's not to love? Wedding evites can be customized just like a paper invitation, without killing trees. If the idea of not holding beautiful, thick cardstock in your hands, gives you hives, then get invitations made from recycled paper.

2. Go Vegetarian:
Not only are meat catering options far more expensive than vegetarian choices, they are also worse for the environment. It takes 24 gallons of water to produce one pound of lettuce, as compared to more than 2,000 gallons of water needed to produce one pound of beef. A meat-free menu is just better for the planet. If your carnivorous guests would balk at pure rabbit food, have a chicken option instead of the ubiquitous and pricey skirt steak option.

3. Location, location, location:
This is the one piece of advice that all green wedding experts agree on. The best thing that you can do to reduce the carbon footprint of your Big Day, is to select a location that is the closest to the majority of your guests. Sorry, but that means 300 guests can't fly out to your destination wedding in the Bahamas. One green expert says that if you MUST have a destination wedding, then the eco-conscious bride should elope there.

What do you think of these suggestions? Too extreme or would you consider adopting one or all of them?

Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Wedding Trend: Trash the Dress

You spent hours searching for the perfect dress, hours more in detailed fitting sessions, not to mention the years that you spent dreaming about the dress as a child, only to – drag it through the mud after your wedding? Light it on fire? Swim in it?


It may sound ridiculous but growing numbers of women are doing just that. They are part of the trash the dress trend, where women hire a photographer to take beautiful, dramatic pictures of them essentially ruining their wedding dress shortly after the ceremony.


According to the New York Times, the trend started in 2005 when Las Vegas photographer John Michael Cooper began photographing his clients in extreme conditions. Apparently Cooper was inspired by fashion photography which long ago learned the merits of juxtaposing beautiful, couture garments with ugly, grungy or dirty settings. Cooper was bored by the same, cookie-cutter photos that every bride requests.

Why do the brides want it? Good question. Many superstitious people think that destroying your wedding dress is bad way to start a marriage. Maybe that’s why precisely why the modern bride chooses to trash the dress- it’s her little form of rebellion. Or maybe the bride really just wants gorgeous, dramatic photographs of herself which wouldn’t be out of place in the pages of W. Another option is that brides don’t like the idea of their dream dress sitting in their closet gathering dust.

What do you think? Would you ever trash the dress? Remember you would be paying your photographer extra for the photo shoot.

I am working on an in-depth reported piece on this trend, so any brides who are willing to be interviewed for the piece, please contact me at SJL446(at)nyu(dot)edu

Saturday, March 27, 2010

Profile of Asema Ahmed, owner of Magnolias Linens

In 2003 Asema Ahmed planned a large-scale family event at the Plaza Hotel. She was dissatisfied by the limited selection of available fabrics, so, with the help of her mother, she decided to design all the linens herself and had them custom-made in India. Her gorgeous creations drew an immediate response and Ahmed quickly realized that she had stumbled upon an untapped market. So in late 2003, she partnered with her mother and her sister, Talaiya to launch their own textile business, Magnolias Linens.

On an overcast February morning, I met Ahmed in the Magnolias Linens’ showroom on Manhattan’s Upper East Side. The vibrant fabrics filled every corner: saffron yellow, deep burgundy, warm chocolate, dark gold and iridescent pink. With their intricate beading, elaborate embroidery or hand-painted details, the samples bring to mind colorful saris. Ahmed designs the linens and then has them produced and imported from a factory in New Delhi, her parents’ hometown. Outsourcing the production to India and dealing directly with the factories – there is no middle man – keeps costs down. As a result, Ahmed’s company is able to provide high-end linens for upscale events at reasonable price points. Brides-to-be can rent a Swarovski crystal-encrusted table cloth for as little as $25.


Growing up in Scarsdale, NY, as the daughter of two physicians, Ahmed had ambitions of following in her parents’ medical footsteps. She graduated from NYU in 2000 with a religious studies major on the pre-med track. Instead of applying to medical school immediately, she enrolled in Georgetown University where she earned a Master’s degree in International Business Development and began considering an entrepreneurial field instead of medicine. It was her mother who saw the potential of Magnolias Linens. “My mom is the rainmaker,” Ahmed said. “She knew this was something I would grow and prosper in but I would never have gotten it off the ground alone.”
In 2007 she was married in New Delhi. The wedding was featured in InStyle Weddings, and Ahmed designed the tenting for the ceremony and the linens for the reception.
“It was perfect,” she said. “Exactly what I wanted.”



Magnolias Linens has expanded into other events, including bar mitzvahs, birthday parties and home decorating. Ahmed provides all the linens for every Plaza Hotel event, works with the Pierre Hotel and is preparing for her first event with the Four Seasons. Ahmed said that while business was affected by the economic downturn last year, their hotel accounts helped to keep them afloat. She explained that Magnolias was less affected than other wedding businesses because linens are a cost-effective way to decorate an entire venue.
“People are paying more attention to textiles because floral arrangements are so expensive,” Ahmed said. “When you walk into a room and see tables covered in floor-length blue linen that gives a more dramatic look.”
While it requires an incredible amount of motivation and self-discipline to run a company, Ahmed loves being her own boss. She enjoys meeting with new clients everyday and nurturing her creative side.
“I’m so lucky that I get to do this,” she said.

Saturday, February 27, 2010

Ahoy Bridey?

Yesterday the Chicago Tribune ran an article about weddings on cruise ships. Apparently the number of couples choosing to get married on a cruise is increasing exponentially. The most popular cruise ship line mentioned in the story, Carnival Cruise, expects to have 2400 weddings on their vessels this year.



The idea of getting married on a cruise is an intriguing one. Pretty much everything is taken care of for you so I imagine that it would greatly cut down on wedding planning stress. Also a lot of the options mentioned in the article are extremely affordable. If the bride and groom decide to get married without guests, a cruise ship package can start as low as $1195. That includes the ceremony, flowers, a cake, and the photography.

One of the biggest decisions that cruise ship couples have to make is whether or not they want guests at their wedding. Obviously guests increase the price tag but not by as much as you might expect. The same cruise line quotes guests, an hour-long open bar and hors d’oeuvres as $1635. They don’t specify the number of guests though, and I am assuming that that quote is for a very small wedding, but that’s still surprisingly affordable.

Another benefit to getting married at sea, is that couples can combine their wedding and their honeymoon which basically slashes your budget in half. The only downside to that is if you have guests at your wedding, then they’re also on your honeymoon. Not very romantic.

Not all couples who decide to get married at sea are doing it to cut costs though. One couple mentioned in the story plan to have over 100 wedding guests at their nautical ceremony!

What do you think? Is a cruise wedding something you would ever consider? It’s not my style but I think there are a lot of advantages to having one.

Tuesday, February 16, 2010

Males of Honor

Australian news site, AdelaideNow, recently posted an article about brides asking their male friends to be part of their wedding party. The so-called “Man of Honor” is the bride’s closest friend and he fulfills the Maid of Honor role that traditionally was held by the bride’s sister or closest female friend.



I think this is a great idea! If your closest friend is a guy or if you have a brother who is very special to you, why not have them as part of your bridal party? On the flip side, I like it when grooms choose their sisters, female cousins or best female friend as their “groomswomen.”

In the past the bride’s brother or the groom’s sister were banished to the other side of the bridal party. In a lot of cases, having the groom’s sister be one of your bridesmaids seemed to be an obligatory request and where’s the sincerity in that? Regardless of gender, the guys and girls who mean the most to the bride and the groom should be allowed to support their actual friend and not symbolically stand on the other side of the altar.

What do you think? Would you ever ask a boy to be part of the bridal party or a girl to be a groomswoman? Why or why not?

PS. Made of Honor was a terrible movie but Michelle Monaghan had the right idea in asking Patrick Dempsey to be her Man of Honor!