Bengali weddings are typically multi-day events and the wedding festivities commence with the Gaye Holud. The bride and groom have separate Gaye Holuds but we're discussing the one for the bride (which the groom does not attend).
The term Gaye Holud means "body dye." During this event guests apply holud - a paste-like mixture of tumeric and milk - to the bride's face and arms as a blessing. The bride also gets mehndi done during this event, which is when henna is applied to her hands and feet in intricate and elaborate designs.
Additionally the Gaye Holud is when the bride receives her wedding outfit and jewelry and she get gifts from the guests. For Bengali couples who follow strict tradition, the bride's wedding sari is chosen and presented by her future mother-in-law. Lastly the bride sits on a dais and is feed sweets, before everyone enjoys a meal that her family has prepared.
Aren't the photos beautiful? The Gaye Holud sounds like the Bengali version of a bridal shower, during which the bride is "showered" with presents and goodies!
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The henna on her hands is really lovely! Turmeric is supposed to make your skin smooth and more glowy so she's getting a spa treatment as well! I love this tradition.
ReplyDeleteYes, I read that turmeric is supposed to be a great beauty treatment! I should have mentioned that :)
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